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'Z Mother In Law
MOTHER-IN-LAW MONSTER ~
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Okay, we've touched upon some very important things regarding the wolf in sheep's clothing scenario. But how can we deal with this vicious person in our life without malice? Let's look at some probable solutions:
· Talk turkey with the mad wet hen. Tell her point blank that she will NOT interfere in your relationship and if she continues, then she will lose. Warning: If you decide to implement this type plan, you MUST have the total cooperation of your partner. Why? Because your partner will be giving 'Mother' this caveat, not you.
· Start delving out errands for 'Mother' to do. If she wants to be a part of the relationship, then she should do her share of the workload - not just the fun stuff.
Example:
Mother: "Sally, you don't know how to do laundry worth a flip! My son's shirts are always wrinkled!"
Sally: "Yes, just like your face, Mother dear," you silently think. Bravely, you plant a smile on your lips and ease out, "You know, you're right, darling. Why don't you start taking Steve's laundry home with you and doing it for him? I know he'll appreciate that - as will I. And it will give us more time for intimacy together, rather than cleaning and ironing. Mother, you're a genius!"
Mother: "Ug
um
wha
hurmp
ta
wha
my
"
Sally: "Why, Mother! You're so happy that you're speechless! Now, come along and we'll share an apple together..."
See how nicely that worked out?
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